What do birth mothers need to know before choosing an adoption agency? If you're not sure where to start this process or which agency can help you to find the just-right adoptive parents for your unborn child, take a look at the questions to ask right now.

Do You Need Counseling or Education Services?

The adoption process isn't easy to navigate by yourself. This is where an agency comes in. Not only can an agency facilitate the adoption itself, but it can also help birth mothers to work through the powerful emotions associated with this process and learn more about what to expect from each step. 

Even though you might not think you need help, the professionals at an agency can recommend or provide supportive services that may make this time easier for you. This allows you to make the best decisions for yourself and can help you to maintain or improve your overall mental health. If you don't already have a professional to talk to or feel lost in this process, make sure the agency you choose offers counseling, education, and other similar services for birth mothers.

Will You Need Post-Adoption Services?

Talk to your agency about the post-adoption services for birth mothers. The process doesn't necessarily end on your due date. After you give birth, you may need continuing medical, psychological, or other services. You may also need additional help creating or maintaining an appropriate relationship with the adoptive family (if you plan to choose an open adoption). 

Will You Need Legal Help?

Adoption is an emotional journey. But that isn't all. It's also a complex legal process that requires professional guidance. A high-quality agency should provide legal counsel or connect you to an attorney who specializes in adoptions. This eliminates the need for you to research local lawyers or interview potential candidates. 

Even though an agency may work with lawyers in your area or help birth mothers to connect with legal counsel, the attorney's fees are typically separate. If you can't afford legal fees, talk to the agency about ways to cover these costs. The adoptive parents may agree to pay these costs for you. 

What Else Is Important To You?

From the birth parent selection to support for your extended family, you have individual needs. These needs differ from birth mother to birth mother. Create a list of what is important to you in an adoption before you speak with agency professionals. This list can focus your search and help you to find the perfect match during your pregnancy.

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